Let’s Talk Measles: A Family On Both Sides

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For many parents like myself the recent outbreaks of Measles has us worried. Today BabyE is nearly 6 months old and too young to be vaccinated for measles. My husband and I have decided to vaccinate our son according to the America Academy of Pediatrics timeline, give or take a week. For others in our family, vaccinations are being delayed or foregoing vaccinations all together. With an outbreak less than 30 minutes from my home at a daycare center, and a local community college, the topic of vaccinations has come up more than once at family gatherings.

With Measles in the news nearly everyday this week, with another case being reported in Chicago, the topic has come up more than once in our family gatherings, including our differences. I have worried about my son meeting his cousins because none of them have been vaccinated for polio, Measles, Mumps, Rubella, or Whooping Cough and influenza. As a proponent of vaccinations I am not averse of exposing my son to germs, we have experienced his first cold. A cold is a virus, regardless of how little attention it is given by people of the general public. The measles however is a virus but on a completely different level and contagion. Prior to 2000 when Measles was eradicated from the United States the vaccinations were a part of children’s regular check ups. Vaccinations are effective even though diseases have the ability to evolve, it is a living organism, but can save a life.

Measles as many know is a virus, spread through the air and lives up to 2 hours after an infected person breaths in a room, and lasts for hours on surfaces. Like a cold measles has similar properties, itchy throat, runny nose, and watery eyes to say the least, the obvious symptom is the RASH. A rash of red bumps all over a persons body, and white bumps inside the mouth. Some people have no reaction, and others have the rash to boot. For children under 1 year old the symptoms and side effects are much greater for contracting the disease with learning disabilities and encephalitis and in severe cases death.

On this issue I am tiny bit bias. Like many my family has difference, stating that the detriment to their children’s health is greater than receiving a vaccine that can have the opposite effect of helping them and having properties of defense for future contact. My opinion, the percentage of people who have had a bad reaction to these same vaccinations is less and less every year, through science we doctors and parents are able to identify allergens that your baby has diminishing these risks. After a scientific study that was debunked for having skewed results relating vaccination to autism, many parents lost their platform for withholding vaccinations. Likewise with my extended family, they could no longer use this data. But how do we proceed with our differences ?

I will continue to vaccinate my son and my family members will still refuse to vaccinate their children. Will the risk of exposing my son to whopping cough or measles be ok if he is exposed to something he cannot combat himself. No, the risk is not worth it. Understand each others differences but do not compromise your child’s well being and safety. You would not set your baby down to play with a 1 year old who has the flu, why would you set your baby down with a one year old with measles?

My extended family has give us some flax for keeping my son away while members are sick with colds and flus. Our response has always been the same, we are exposing him to germs just not every germ. In my opinion make your boundaries clear, and stick to them. Regardless of which side of aisle they fall on whether it is religious, personal choice, or medical.

The fallout – Kindercare has decided to update their criteria for caregivers to have MMR vaccinations. Elgin Community College has offered free vaccinations to its student as well as a complete decontamination of the affected areas. The difference between these two areas is one place had children who were not vaccinated or were too young to be, so the disease was able spread without censure. The other an area where adults knowingly could be vaccinated for MMR and had the immunities to combat it. For my son and I, we are staying away from sick people for our own health. I have the possibility of having a shingles relapse, and he because he is too young to be treated for anything other than the common cold and what his current vaccinations are for.

Endnote: This entire blog post is from knowledge I have gained from research. I have not cited resources because I have written this quickly. If someone is looking for accredited sources you can on websites on the internet, or asking your healthcare provider for information.

Toys And Books For A Developing Mind

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Christmas shopping has commenced! I try to pick up little things throughout the year for my loved ones and believe Christmas is more for the children in the family. Growing up in a household of 9 kids it was not easy for my parents to get each child what they wanted, financially it just was not possible. Looking at it in hindsight us kids, we never noticed. We were always happy with what we received. We loved to get toys that we could not only play with but where we could learn and build something from. I have continued that tradition with my nieces and nephews in gifting educational and fun gifts.

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It is wonderful to receive presents at any time of the year. Fortunately my husband and I try to grab little meaningful and fun gifts for each niece and nephew up until Christmas. We are not millionaires and have entry level jobs, but we love to see smiles and baby giggles. Having a newborn son of our own, it makes the holidays even more special because we can shop for him too. I am on the lookout for any game, toy, or book that will help his motor skills and be a little evil genius. Anything really that will coax a smile out of him and not make him give his “I am dying scream”.

Recently I attended the Chicago Toy and Game Fair at Navy Pier. Loads of new games, for kids and adults. I thought it was going to be boring and a headache but it was actually a lot of fun. My son who is only two months old came along in his Boba too. I picked up a few things and gawked at a few others. I particularly looked at baby and developmental toys for children of young ages. Below are a couple of toys I have decided to get for my son and niece and nephews. Just my own POV of some pretty cool toys.

1. Paige and Paxton – This wonderful company introduces learning science and technology at an early age. Incorporating paleontology and green thinking as well as technology into fun puzzles and books. For my niece and nephew who love to play with puzzles and read, this was perfect!

http://www.paigeandpaxton.com

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2. NumberAlive! – I do not know if any kid being introduced to math has gone into a classroom disliking numbers. This company wants to help a kid love to learn math and numbers at an early age. Giving Pi a face that can be a happy sight instead of filled with read. The plush dolls are a great way to show recognition of numbers and colors. The World Number Poster is something I was thinking of getting for myself.

http://www.numbersalive.org

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3. Mirari – Buying for a baby is not easy. Because development happens so fast babies go through toys at a wonderful pace. We just need to keep up as parents. I looked at these Mirari toys and they caught my sons attention in his Boba. The shape is different but He loved when I made these shapes jump in the Bouncy Bop by Mirari Toys.

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These are the toys that caught my eye in particular at the ChiTAG for my son and young family members. Do you have any favorite recommendations for Christmas gifts that encourage learning and fun? Share please and I look forward to your responses.

How Dreft Wipes Helped My Germ-Phobia

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My son Baby E and I took a little road trip for work, roughly 3 hours from Chicago to Springfield, IL. Sleeping most of the way, my son took to the drive very well. I realized he loves car rides soon after coming home with him from the hospital. I still had my concerns traveling alone for the first time without my husband or sister Foofoo.

We did not get a chance to visit the sites because this was such a short trip. But I am sure in the future we will. If you ever get the chance to visit the capital of Illinois I highly recommend it. The Abraham Lincoln Museum and Library are great! Including Salem and the historical town where Lincoln’s home is standing, the town is very quiet and welcoming.
Straying off topic, sorry!

We only managed to see the hotel where we stayed and the conference site. My biggest worry the whole trip was running into people with germs, colds, or coughs. This may sound anal but I was even worried about sleeping in the hotel with Baby E. Normally I do not mind, but babies are sensitive. I was worried that even though there were new linens, towels, and blankets there would still be germs lurking. Trying to put my heart at ease, I brought along a giant blanket for baby to sleep on, on top of the sheets (you can eye roll), another blanket and his own set of towels, just in case we had an accident and needed an emergency bath.

And something that I am happy to have brought along Dreft all purpose wipes. I am already bad about using them at home once a day to wipe down surfaces people touch but let me tell you, I went to town on the hotel room! Before I even took baby out of the car seat I wiped down everything I touched, the doorknobs, light fixtures, toilet bowl, toilet seat, the remote for the television, the telephone, the desk and dresser tops, literally everything! The smell was wonderful and finally I could pick up my son (after washing my hands again) without thinking he was going to pick up a random germ. Even though cleaning wipes do not kill every germ, they got the job done. The smell was not as harsh as a bleach wipe, and they are safe for baby’s. I highly recommend trying these! I even used them on the door handle of my car when we got in and out at rest stops and restaurants. Yes, that sounds ridiculous, but until you count in an hour how many things you and other people touch and then handle a baby you will understand why I am crazy about this too.

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Chicago, Baby E!

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I love visiting the city of Chicago. Normally I just call it the “city”. But lately I have been very hesitant -and cautious, about visiting with a newborn.
I take public transportation whenever I travel to Chicago. This even included traveling into the city by Metra, and either walking taking the cta or EL.
When I see people on the Metra with strollers and kids, it always seems like it’s a hassle, people are rude for no reason, the seats/space is never family friendly.
I have not traveled anywhere further than the grocery store and bank with my newborn, so planning an excursion to the city is really intimidating.
I keep going over in my head how to make a trip easier without having to carry a billion baby items. Diaper bag and Baby E being a must.